We're back from New Orleans and are officially Mr. & Mrs. Adams!!
The last few weeks have definitely been a whirlwind.
This is what I consider my real life fairytale.
I have honestly, besides when my children were born have never been happier.
It was Sunday, March 25th.
It was just the two of us at home, watching the UK game.
The Cats were playing Bailor and were well on their way to the Final Four in New Orleans.
At this point, we'd been engaged a little over two months.
We had been tossing around different ideas for our wedding.
We knew right off that we didn't want a large traditional wedding.
We wanted something small & unique.
A destination Wedding.
We were still struggling on a location and a date though.
It honestly became a little frustrating.
We'd plan nights where we'd just look on the internet for ideas.
It'd get late & I'd fall asleep which just made Creag mad.
We began to joke a little here and there about running off to get married.
And that's exactly what we did.
Talk of it started on Sunday at home.
Creag said, "If Kentucky wins this game, we should go to New Orleans to get married."
"We'll just go to the game while we're there"
I'm thinking to myself, yeah right.
He can't be serious.
I'm thinking, Kentucky has quite the lead right now.
I better take him up on this!
So I agreed.
If they win, we're going!
When he started googling New Orleans weddings I knew he was serious.
He showed me a picture of Jackson Square and I was sold. It looked amazing.
At this point, I had my hopes up.
The score towards the end of the game was getting close and I was getting nervous.
I really, really wanted this and he did too.
I sat there on the edge of my seat, biting my nails until the buzzer sounded & Kentucky WON!
We were both giddy & over the moon excited!!
A few things I remember saying were....
"We're going to New Orleans!!"
"I have to call my parents!!"
And probably something along the lines of "we're crazy!!"
We decided that we were going to invite our immediate family & closest friends.
If they could come, great. If not, we were getting married anyway.
We're both pretty spontaneous and our relationship has been nothing short of a roller coaster ride so this was perfect for us.
I called my parents first and they said what I thought they would.
"Of course we'll be there!"
My brother also agreed to come.
My best friend Amy, which was my Maid of Honor said that she wanted to be there but first had to check her work schedule. Eventually, she worked things out & was able to say yes and that she was bringing Jacob!
Creag's Mom & Step Dad along with his sister Mica & her husband Tyler couldn't commit right away either because they had a few things to figure out.
His Mom was the only one who was able to make it. Dave just couldn't get off of work.
Mica, was pretty far along in her pregnancy & it just didn't seem like a great idea to travel to New Orleans. We missed them all at the wedding, but completely understood.
Michael was in right away. He was the best man so he really had no choice.
After we knew who was coming with us, we decided that we'd leave on Thursday, March 29th after work.
This gave us 5 days to prepare for our wedding!! Oh let the madness begin.
SUNDAY:
Creag started looking for houses on Sunday night.
An eight bedroom house to be exact.
On Final Four weekend.
Checking in in less that a week.
This sure wasn't going to be easy, or cheap.
I think it took him until about Tuesday to find a place, but he did it.
Prime example of why I love him. He knows how to get things done.
He found us an 8 Bedroom, 4 Bathroom house right outside of the garden district.
It was away from the city which we thought would be great considering we would have the kids with us.
After the house was taken care of, we found a minister online.
Reverend Charles Cross.
Pretty ironic seeing how we met online, eh.
I'm a HUGE fan of the Internet:)
We sent the minister an email & he agreed that he could marry us on Sunday, April 1st.
I wasn't a husge fan of an APRIL FOOLS DAY wedding, but it grew on me.
I really had no other choice because the basketball game was on Saturday.
Reverend Cross stated that he would take care of getting us a cake, & he knew of a photographer and offered to set that up as well.
After we had that settled, we looked into the location.
I had said earlier that we really liked Jackson Square, so we stuck with that.
Then, we left the house to do a little shopping.
We really did not have much time & I was antsy to buy stuff for the wedding.
We needed to find the kids something to wear for the ceremony & needed to get a few things for their Easter baskets anyway.
We headed to Walmart & found matching dresses for the girls with white dress shoes.
They were perfect.
They were white & a pale yellow color.
This led the way for me to decide on a white & yellow color scheme but thought I'd try to throw blue in there for UK.
Walmart also had little boys Easter Suits that I liked.
They didn't have matching ones in the same color for their sizes so we decided to pass on them.
We figured we could check another store later in the week.
We checked out & headed home with one more thing crossed off the list.
MONDAY:
Monday morning, on my way to work I called Jeri.
Jeri used to babysit the kids when we lived in Dayton & she's also a florist.
Jeri & I are pretty close. She'd been waiting & waiting for the day Creag proposed.
I asked her if she would mind making me a boquet.
Of course she obliged. I had no doubt she would.
She is an amazing person to say the least.
I told her that I wanted yellow & white flowers.
Yellow calalilly's if she could find them.
She did, and they were beautiful!!
My bouquet
She not only made my boquet like I asked.
She also made flowers for Amy, Skylar & Sam, Yvonne, & my Mom.
Creag, Micael, Hank & Wyatt, & my Dad.
She really saved me on this.
And only charged me what the flowers cost her.
Pretty amazing friend right there.
Skylar & Sammie's boquet's
Monday night after work, we also went to Jared so Creag could pick out his wedding band.
He picked out his band and then we took the kids out for pizza at Danato's.
After dinner, we dropped Skylar off at gymnastics & headed into Florence to go wedding dress shopping.
Creag dropped me off at David's Bridal & then took the boys to find UK shirts.
I walked into David's Bridal with like 45 minutes to spare because we had to be back to get Skylar by 8:30.
Oh my was I stressed & a little overwhelmed once I saw all of the gowns to choose from.
I had an idea of what I wanted.
Long, White, Simple, & Elegant.
The girls at David's Bridal were amazing & very helpful.
I told them what I wanted, how little time that I had & they grabbed a few dresses for me to try on.
Off to the dressing room we went.
Here are my choices.
I ended up choosing dress #2.
I also chose a veil.
I really wasn't too sure about it, but in the end I'm glad I got it.
I knew that I wanted a pop of yellow in my jewelry to go with my flowers, so I picked out these shoes & had them dyed yellow.
All of this obviously took longer than expected.
I had to text Creag to ask him if he would go get Skylar from gymnastics and come back to get me.
He said yes and it worked out great because by the time they got back, I was still being fitted for alterations and Skylar was able to see me in my dress.
Her eyes lit up when she saw me.
You could tell she thought her Mama looked beautiful, and it made my heart swell to see her eyes light up like that.
When we finally finished, I changed back into normal clothes & I paid for the dress (thank you David's Bridal financing!!)
They told me the dress would be ready for pick-up Wednesday night at 8:30.
After we left there, we headed over to the Walmart in Florence to see what they had in the little boys suit department.
We found this:))))
Is that not too friggin' cute!?
My son is going to be such a ladies man;)
We bought this suit for Hank, but they still didn't have one for Wyatt that matched.
I asked the lady working if she'd call the Walmart by our house to see if they had a matching one in a 4T. They didn't have a 4, but had a 5 so we asked them to hold it for us.
On our way home we stopped to buy the suit. While I was there I got their dress shoes to match.
So the kids outfits were then completely taken care of.
I surely didn't feel like mother of the year having them out at Walmart on a school night at 10:30pm but this stuff HAD to be done.
We were so short on time it wasn't funny!!
Tuesday:
On Tuesday, we found out that we would not be able to get married at Jackson Square.
You need to apply for a permit 2 weeks in advance to have an event there, so we agreed that we would pick a location when we got to New Orleans.
After work, the girls & I went to get pedicures & manicures.
I got a french manicure on both my finger & toe nails.
Sammie chose french manicure on both fingers & toes as well.
Skylar got a french manicure on her nails with glitter on top & yellow tootsies:)
My Weddin' Nails
I'm pretty sure the rest of Tuesday was spent at home packing & cleaning.
I was also getting messages throughout the day/night from my Mom while she was dress shopping.
M.O.T.B.
She also found me this, which is exactly what I was looking for!!!
Thank God for her help!! And Amy's!
Amy found me this bracelet.
& these adorable flowers for the girls hair.
At this point I think jewelry was pretty much taken care of.
WEDNESDAY:
After work on Wednesday we met at home & had a quick dinner there.
After dinner we headed out to wrap things up.
I had to pick up my dress and the boys needed haircuts.
I also wanted to find a few miscellaneous things for the trip.
I always feel like I'm short on clothes.
Especially when we go on vacation.
We drove separately but first stopped at Great Clips so I could let them know how to cut Hank's hair.
Then I let Creag take it from there.
Michael was with them & after their haircuts, they were heading over to Men's Warehouse to pick up their suits.
I wasn't allowed to know what his suit looked like btw.
It was to be a total surprise.
And this terrified me just a little bit.
The fear worsened after Creag described the suit as "fly".
I was litterally in my head picturing the blue suits in Dumb & Dumber.
I had a little time in between the hair cut and my appointment at Davids Bridal so I decided to stop in Dots to see what they had.
I'm really glad I did because I found all kinds of goodies.
Amy had been looking for a yellow cover-up to wear over her dress and yellow shoes & I found them both.
Cute right?!
Their shoes were buy one, get one half off so I had to get myself some too!!
I finally made it back to the house so it was time to start packing.
And trying things on.
We ended Wednesday night with a few beers at the house.
Michael stayed late& his friend Bruce came by.
I think/know they were TRYING to get him out for a bachelor party but failed!!
THURSDAY:
Thursday is the day that we worked all day.
Met everyone at home afterward.
Loaded up, & headed to New Orleans where I would say I do to the man of my dreams.
To be continued...............